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There are certain personalities I've been around with sports coaches, fatherly types. Jim Mora's kind of like this. Torre is. I've been cut off sports teams by this kind of guy, and watched them cut other guys. I've had them grant me, or not grant me, advancement belts.
They care, a lot, and they're professional, sympathetic, and firm. You know that they are realistic, and you know they are right when they cut you. And it's just hard to be mad at them, because they're straight with you, and you think they're smarter than you are.
You just accept that you shouldn't be on the team, or have the brown belt yet, or whatever.
Very few guys have the knack.