Shout - NYNY - 3/28/15 3:22pm
We are not raising her in any faith--her dad is an #Atheist and I'm just earthy-spiritual with no definition!--but we had so many kids that were very religious telling her she's going to hell. #Single #NYNY
We are not raising her in any faith--her dad is an #Atheist and I'm just earthy-spiritual with no definition!--but we had so many kids that were very religious telling her she's going to hell. #Single #NYNY
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The Think Tank has a mind of its own :- ) and right now, it seems to be on the U.S. school system. As y'know, we live to serve. This post addresses sensitive gender topics. If you don't want to be exposed to 2-way debate on gender issues, click on to the next post brotha.
If you do want to debate it, 'ave at me mate. Say anything you like on SSI, especially if it happens to be the truth. Only, say it in a civil, respectful manner. This encourages the next guy to follow on.
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"The greatest threat to freedom is the absence of criticism." - Wole Soyinka
"In the absence of criticism and competition, all institutions inevitably morph to serve themselves." - I forget who (shoulda been the publisher of the New York Times, probably)
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Speaking to Matt's point, Dr. D has raised a large, aggressive, masculine -- and well-behaved -- son who was abused* by the K-12 system. This despite our best, most sincere efforts to adjust to the female* teaching staffs. By the way, speaking to Moe's point, Dr. D himself also had no father-figure role model. And Dr. D was a foster dad to a 7th-9th grade student (a nice, smart kid) who as an 8th-grader, could not read well enough to write his own name. Literally.
So you're talking microbrews to a 20-year AA member. Also you are an expert: you have attended the K-12 system, most of you recently.
Here are a few thoughts about the whether the 2015 U.S. school system will prosper going forward.
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I agree fervently with these three amigos. In my mind, they're all correct:
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SABRMatt - the educational system in the secondary and elementary levels is currently designed to cater exclusively to girls...it's not surprising that boys are getting left behind.
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Mo' Dawg: I'm respectfully disagreeing with Matt: Boys are getting left behind because so many of them are being raised without dads, figuratively or literally. After 34 years in the classroom, 32 at the secondary level, I'm pretty dead sure that I push the guys as much as the girls. More so, likely. They get no pass, behaviorally or educationally. Hold true for the vast majority of the teachers I've worked with, both great ones and terrible ones. More and more, we're seeing boys raised in homes with no male role-model or no steady one. Frequently, nobody at home asks them to be young men and shows them how. Hey, my dad was raised (with 5 siblings) by a tough mom and with an absentee dad and he grew up right. It can happen. But he was born in 1928, that situation was relatively rare. Not so today. You want to fix boys, start by fixing (way too many) dads. Oh, there is more to the remedy than just that......but that's a good place to start.
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It's a unique and undeniable truth that one of the most commonly found heroes in horror films is religion. After all, hauntings can almost always be eradicated with a foray into some dusty corner of the afterlife and everyone knows one of the surest ways to repel a vampire is by waving a giant cross in its face. But what if religion weren't just the cure for what chills you... but also the cause? If you're in the mood for some truly eerie movies with unsettling spiritual twists, these two picks are perfect for you.
But I do love the idea of me, a staunch #Atheist, making a killing selling religious memorabilia. #Single #Erika_B
I can think of two people off the top of my head (no one here!), one of them is a conservative #Republican but an honest and decent person. The #Other is as liberal and #Atheist as I am, but he's a manipulative liar. I'd date the 1st in a heartbeat, but never the 2nd. #Single #Erika_B #Chat:2-3-15_3:13pm
I mean, I'm a staunch #Atheist, and I used to be very militant about it. These days I honestly don't care if someone is religious or not, as long as they are a decent person. #Single #Erika_B #Chat:2-3-15_3:13pm
Sometimes when I talk to my married friends, with their spouses and kids and mortgages and all, I feel like their lives automatically have a purpose that mine does not. Maybe it's because we're always told that "your family is your best legacy," or maybe it's just that they are so busy, they don't have time to sit around and mope about whether or not their lives have meaning.
I never wanted to have kids, and I haven't yet been with someone I wanted to marry. I don't regret the decisions I made, not one bit. But the grass is always greener, I suppose.